Depend on the efforts of your own handiwork. Make sure you are the total sum of your
own achieved goals. Do not create codependent relationships in any way. Do not let your happiness, or your success, be determined by anyone else. Be responsible for yourself. Rely on your own efforts to secure your needs, for it is only as we build upon success after success will we be truly satisfied (Vaygar Ingvald Elmersson).